January 30, 2013

Quotes on Love


Don’t give special place to any one in your heart. Its easy to give that place but it hurts more when they don’t know the value of that place.

This is the problem with getting attached to someone. When they leave, you just feel lost.

It hurts when you have someone in your heart but can’t have in your arms.

Some say its painful to wait someone. Some say its painful to forget someone. But the worst pain comes when you dont know whether to wait or forget.

I don’t miss him, I miss who I thought he was.

I don’t believe in love because I still don’t have you.

Im incomplete without you!

The higher you climb on love’s ladder, the harder you fall.

I tried to forget you, but the harder I tried, the more I thought about you

Losing a part of yourself is much easier than losing the one you love.

If you leave without a reason dont come back with an excuse.

I remember all those crazy things you said, you left them running through my head. You are always there, you are everywhere. But right now I wish you were here.

If there ever comes a day when we can’t be together, keep me in your heart, I’ll stay there forever.

I don’t know why they call it heartbreak. It feels like other part of my body is broken too.

Nothing hurts more than realizing he meant everything to you and you meant nothing to him

I love crying in the rain. because when i do, no one can hear the pain.

One of the hardest things in life is watching the person you love, love someone else.

It still hurts that you’re doing completely okay, without me.

No one is worth your tears and when you find one that is, he won’t make you cry.

January 24, 2013

Positive Thoughts

“you can, you should, and if you’re brave enough to start, you will.” 

“Get going. Move forward. Aim High. Plan a takeoff. Don't just sit on the runway and hope someone will come along and push the airplane. It simply won't happen. Change your attitude and gain some altitude. Believe me, you'll love it up here.” 

“The world’s bumper sticker reads: Life sucks, and then you die. Perhaps Christian bumper stickers should read: Life sucks, but then you find hope and you can’t wait to die.” 

“Some people grumble that roses have thorns; I am grateful that thorns have roses.” 

“Minds are like flowers, they only open when the time is right.” 

“You are essentially who you create yourself to be and all that occurs in your life is the result of your own making.” 

“if you tell yourself you feel fine, you will.” 

“No matter whether you believe in luck or chance, the final decision is from yourself.” 

“You don't have to be good at something to be liked.” 

“Without desires and dreams, your thoughts do not matter and you can think whatever you want to.” 

“You have to open up to the world and learn optimism...Contentment with the past, happiness with the present, and hope for the future. Learned optimisim.” 

“If the great internet connects us all ... then why are so many of us becoming increasingly isolated?” 

“Hard work is what you do to make ends meet, easy work is getting others to do the hard work for you.” 

“Inaction creates nothing. Action creates success.” 

“The mind is the strongest tool we have to help us secure the riches within the universe.” 


January 22, 2013

Nice Quotes


At some point, you’ll have to realize that some people can stay in your heart, but not in your life.


Maybe it’s not always about trying to fix something that is broken. Maybe it’s about starting over and creating something better.


Don’t tie your heart to a person that has nothing left to offer you. Let it go. It might hurt for a while, but when you get over it, you’ll see that it’s better.


Don’t stumble over something behind you.


Sometimes you just outgrow certain people. Don’t try to fix or repair it, just accept it and move on.


Forgiving you is my gift to you. Moving on is my gift to myself.


Some things are hard to let go of, I get that. But what’s the point of holding onto something that’s already let go of you?


The best revenge is just moving on and getting over it. Don’t give someone the satisfaction of watching you suffer.


One thing I’ve learned is that you can’t move on alone. You need someone to show you that behind all the clouds, the sun is still shining.


Maybe it’s not always about fixing something that’s broken. Maybe it’s about starting over and creating something better.

January 21, 2013

Quotes About Inspiration


“Don't think or judge, just listen.” 
― Sarah Dessen, Just Listen


“We believe in ordinary acts of bravery, in the courage that drives one person to stand up for another.” 
― Veronica Roth, Divergent


“You can talk with someone for years, everyday, and still, it won't mean as much as what you can have when you sit in front of someone, not saying a word, yet you feel that person with your heart, you feel like you have known the person for forever.... connections are made with the heart, not the tongue.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“If you want to forget something or someone, never hate it, or never hate him/her. Everything and everyone that you hate is engraved upon your heart; if you want to let go of something, if you want to forget, you cannot hate.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“Don't be afraid of your fears. They're not there to scare you. They're there to let you know that something is worth it.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“We have to allow ourselves to be loved by the people who really love us, the people who really matter. Too much of the time, we are blinded by our own pursuits of people to love us, people that don't even matter, while all that time we waste and the people who do love us have to stand on the sidewalk and watch us beg in the streets! It's time to put an end to this. It's time for us to let ourselves be loved.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“You will find that it is necessary to let things go; simply for the reason that they are heavy. So let them go, let go of them. I tie no weights to my ankles.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“I have come to accept the feeling of not knowing where I am going. And I have trained myself to love it. Because it is only when we are suspended in mid-air with no landing in sight, that we force our wings to unravel and alas begin our flight. And as we fly, we still may not know where we are going to. But the miracle is in the unfolding of the wings. You may not know where you're going, but you know that so long as you spread your wings, the winds will carry you.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“The only way that we can live, is if we grow. The only way that we can grow is if we change. The only way that we can change is if we learn. The only way we can learn is if we are exposed. And the only way that we can become exposed is if we throw ourselves out into the open. Do it. Throw yourself.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“There will be a few times in your life when all your instincts will tell you to do something, something that defies logic, upsets your plans, and may seem crazy to others. When that happens, you do it. Listen to your instincts and ignore everything else. Ignore logic, ignore the odds, ignore the complications, and just go for it.” 
― Judith McNaught, Remember When


“One day, in retrospect, the years of struggle will strike you as the most beautiful.” 
― Sigmund Freud


“Life is too short to waste any amount of time on wondering what other people think about you. In the first place, if they had better things going on in their lives, they wouldn't have the time to sit around and talk about you. What's important to me is not others' opinions of me, but what's important to me is my opinion of myself.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“The unhappiest people in this world, are those who care the most about what other people think.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“Pain is a pesky part of being human, I've learned it feels like a stab wound to the heart, something I wish we could all do without, in our lives here. Pain is a sudden hurt that can't be escaped. But then I have also learned that because of pain, I can feel the beauty, tenderness, and freedom of healing. Pain feels like a fast stab wound to the heart. But then healing feels like the wind against your face when you are spreading your wings and flying through the air! We may not have wings growing out of our backs, but healing is the closest thing that will give us that wind against our faces.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“Home is the place where, when you have to go there, They have to take you in.” 
― Robert Frost


“Thinking something does not make it true. Wanting something does not make it real.” 
― Michelle Hodkin, The Unbecoming of Mara Dyer


“We can't be afraid of change. You may feel very secure in the pond that you are in, but if you never venture out of it, you will never know that there is such a thing as an ocean, a sea. Holding onto something that is good for you now, may be the very reason why you don't have something better.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“No matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.” 
― Maya Angelou


“There is some kind of a sweet innocence in being human- in not having to be just happy or just sad- in the nature of being able to be both broken and whole, at the same time.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“My Life is My Message” 
― Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi


“You've got this life and while you've got it, you'd better kiss like you only have one moment, try to hold someone's hand like you will never get another chance to, look into people's eyes like they're the last you'll ever see, watch someone sleeping like there's no time left, jump if you feel like jumping, run if you feel like running, play music in your head when there is none, and eat cake like it's the only one left in the world!” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“They say a good love is one that sits you down, gives you a drink of water, and pats you on top of the head. But I say a good love is one that casts you into the wind, sets you ablaze, makes you burn through the skies and ignite the night like a phoenix; the kind that cuts you loose like a wildfire and you can't stop running simply because you keep on burning everything that you touch! I say that's a good love; one that burns and flies, and you run with it!” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“I think that we are like stars. Something happens to burst us open; but when we burst open and think we are dying; we’re actually turning into a supernova. And then when we look at ourselves again, we see that we’re suddenly more beautiful than we ever were before!” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“Things end. People leave. And you know what? Life goes on. Besides, if bad things didn't happen, how would you be able to feel the good ones?” 
― Elizabeth Scott, Perfect You


“If I am to be fallen into love, I will. And if as a result I will appear to be stupid, disillusioned, and of poor judgment, I will. And I would be damned if I cared what other people think. For I would rather be thought of as all of these things, than not love. If in loving, I become the naked woman on the horse, I will ride that horse with my head held high. This is my spirit. I am unbreakable.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“People have to forgive. We don't have to like them, we don't have to be friends with them, we don't have to send them hearts in text messages, but we have to forgive them, to overlook, to forget. Because if we don't we are tying rocks to our feet, too much for our wings to carry!” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“If you're not failing every now and again, it's a sign you're not doing anything very innovative.” 
― Woody Allen


“Don't think about making life better for other people who don't even deserve you, rather, focus on making your life the best, for yourself and those who love you.” 
― C. JoyBell C.


“True happiness is to enjoy the present, without anxious dependence upon the future, not to amuse ourselves with either hopes or fears but to rest satisfied with what we have, which is sufficient, for he that is so wants nothing. The greatest blessings of mankind are within us and within our reach. A wise man is content with his lot, whatever it may be, without wishing for what he has not.” 
― Lucius Annaeus Seneca


“I've come to believe that there exists in the universe something I call "The Physics of The Quest"- a force of nature governed by laws as real as the laws gravity or momentum. And the rule of Quest Physics maybe goes like this: "If you are brave enough to leave behind everything familiar and comforting(which can be anything from your house to your bitter old resentments)and set out on a truth-seeking journey(either externally or
internally),and if you are truly willing to regard everything that happens to you on that journey as a clue, and if you accept everyone you
meet along the way as a teacher, and if you are prepared - most of all -to face (and forgive) some very difficult realities about yourself....then truth will not be withheld from you." Or so I've come to believe.” 
― Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love

January 19, 2013

Love Quotes

  • “You come to love not by finding the perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly.” Sam Keen
  • “Her breath is like honey spiced with cloves, Her mouth delicious as a ripened mango.”
  • “If you have it [love], you don’t need to have anything else. If you don’t have it, it doesn’t matter much what else you have” James M. Barrie
  • “I believe that two people are connected at the heart, and it doesn’t matter what you do, or who you are or where you live; there are no boundaries or barriers if two people are destined to be together.” Julia Roberts
  • “Love is not to be purchased, and affection has no price.” St. Jerome
  • “Thou art to me a delicious torment.” Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched – they must be felt with the heart.” Helen Keller
  • “True love begins when nothing is looked for in return.” Antoine de Saint-Exupery
  • “Each moment of the happy lover’s hour is worth an age of dull and common life.” Aphra Behn
  • “The only gift is a portion of thyself. ” Ralph Waldo Emerson
  • “The rose speaks of love silently, in a language known only to the heart.” Source Unknown
  • “There’s this place in me where your fingerprints still rest, your kisses still linger, and your whispers softly echo. It’s the place where a part of you will forever be a part of me.” Gretchen Kemp
  • “Absence sharpens love, presence strengthens it.” Benjamin Franklin
  • “The most precious possession that ever comes to a man in this world is a woman’s heart.” Josiah G. Holland
  • “Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own.” Robert Heinlein
  • “If I had a flower for every time I thought of you, I could walk in my garden forever.” Alfred Lord Tennyson
  • “If I know what love is, it is because of you.” Herman Hesse
  • “To love someone deeply gives you strength. Being loved by someone deeply gives you courage.”Lao-Tzu
  • “In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.”Mignon McLaughlin
  • “In love there are two things – bodies and words.” Joyce Carol Oates
  • “If I could reach up and hold a star for every time you made me smile, I would have the whole night sky in the palm of my hand.” Author Unknown
  • “Love is the enchanted dawn of every heart.” Lamartine
  • “To be your friend was all I ever wanted; to be your lover was all I ever dreamed.” Valerie Lombardo
  • “Kiss me and you will see stars; love me and I will give them to you.” Author Unknown
  • “Your words are my food, your breath my wine. You are everything to me.” Sarah Bernhardt
  • “A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to stop speech when words become superfluous.”Ingrid Bergman
  • “So dear I love him that with him, All deaths I could endure. Without him, live no life.” William Shakespeare
  • “Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.” Bruce Lee
  • “For every beauty there is an eye somewhere to see it. For every truth there is an ear somewhere to hear it. For every love there is a heart somewhere to receive it.” Ivan Panin
  • “My heart is ever at your service.” William Shakespeare
  • “Within you I lose myself. Without you I find myself wanting to become lost again.” Author Unknown
  • “Where we love is home, home that our feet may leave, but not our hearts.” Oliver Wendall Holmes
  • “How delicious is the winning of a kiss at love’s beginning.” Thomas Campbell
  • “The most wonderful of all things in life is the discovery of another human being with whom one’s relationship has a growing depth, beauty and joy as the years increase. This inner progressiveness of love between two human beings is a most marvelous thing; it cannot be found by looking for it or by passionately wishing for it. It is a sort of divine accident, and the most wonderful of all things in life.” Sir Hugh Walpole
  • “Love is a fire. But whether it is going to warm your heart or burn down your house, you can never tell.” Joan Crawford
  • “Love doesn’t make the world go round. Love is what makes the ride worthwhile.” Franklin Jones
  • “Love is a dream that comes alive when we meet.” Author Unknown

January 18, 2013

INSPIRATIONAL QUOTES

Moving on, is a simple thing, what it leaves behind is hard.”
-Dave Mustaine

“Watching you walk out of my life does not make me bitter or cynical about love. But rather makes me realize that if I wanted so much to be with the wrong person how beautiful it will be when the right one comes along.”
-Anonymous

“Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving”
-Albert Einstein

“You can never cross the ocean unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore”
-Christopher Columbus

“Love is never lost. If not reciprocated, it will flow back and soften and purify the heart”
-Washington Irving

“When one door closes, another opens; but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the one which has opened for us”
-Alexander Graham Bell

“I was never one to patiently pick up broken fragments and glue them together again and tell myself that the mended whole was as good as new. What is broken is broken, and I’d rather remember it as it was at its best than mend it and see the broken pieces as long as I lived”
-Margaret Mitchell

The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can’t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.”
-Anonymous

“We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us.”
-E.M. Forster

“Letting go doesn’t mean that you don’t care about someone anymore. It’s just realizing that the only person you really have control over is yourself.”
-Deborah Reber

“Letting go has never been easy, but holding on can be as difficult. Yet strength is measured not by holding on, but by letting go.”
-Len Santos

“You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You are able to say to yourself ‘I have lived through this horror. I can take the next thing that comes along.’ You must do the thing you think you cannot do.”
-Eleanor Roosevelt

January 10, 2013

Heart Touching Quotes


"I never hate you for not loving me anymore but I hate myself for still loving you."

"Being with no one is better than being with the wrong one."

"At some point of your life, you will become aware that some people can stay in your heart but not in your life."

"You cannot fly with broken wings and you cannot love with broken heart"

"Why Am I so scared of losing you when you are not even mine?"

"I never stopped loving, I just stopped showing it.

"This love game is give and take but you took everything!"

"One of the ugliest sights in the world is to see the one you love happy with someone else."

"Trying to forget someone you love is like trying to remember someone you never knew"

"The love that lasts the longest is the love that is never returned."

"Erasing yourself from somebody’s life is not as simple as walking out the door."

"Families break up when people take hints you don’t intend and miss hints you do intend."

January 07, 2013

Lovely Quotes

* YOU ARE THE ONE WHO BROKE MY HEART ..
     YOU ARE THE ONE WHO MAKE ME CRY
      YOU ARE THE REASON MY WORLD FELL APART.
   AND YET ,I ', STILL IN LOVE WITH YOU......
   AND I DON'T KNOW WHY...........!

* SOMETIMES IT'S BETTER TO BE ALONE 
   NO ONE CAN HURT YOU THAT WAY.

*SHE CAN'T FALL FOR YOU ,
   IF YOU IS NOT THERE TO CATCH HER.

* YOUR HEART ISN'T A APLASTIC NOR IS IT 
   A TOY BUT IF YOU WANT IT TO BE BROKEN 
   GIVE IT TO A GIRL.

* JUST FOR THE RECORD:
   YOU STILL MEAN EVERYTHING TO ME.

* SOMETIMES I WISH TO BE A LITTLE KID AGAIN
   SKINNED KNEES ARE EASIER TO FIX  THEN 
   BROKEN HEARTS.

* WHY IS IT THAT WHEN I AM FINALLY GETTING OVER YOU,
    YOU GIVE ME A REASON NOT TO ?

* SADDEST THING IN THE WORLD IS LOVING SOMEONE 
    WHO USED TO LOVE YOU.

* AS SOON AS FOREVER IS THROUGH , THAT'S WHEN I WILL BE OVER YOU.

* WHILE I WAS HOLDING ON , ALL YOU DID WAS LET GO....!

* RELATIONSHIPS ARE JUST LIKE GLASSES , IF THEY BREAK LET THEM STAY BROKEN
   YOU WILL ONLY HURT YOURSELF TRYING TO FIX IT , AT LEAST THE PIECES REMAIN
   SAME.....!

* REAL LOSS ONLY OCCURS WHEN YOU LOSE THE THING WHICH YOU LOVE MORE THAN YOURSELF

* I WISH I SAVED ALL THE TEARS I CRIED FOR YOU SO THAT I DROWN YOU IN THEM.

* IF YOU DONT LOVE ME AT MY WORST , THEN YOU DON'T DESERVE ME AT MY BEST.

* MY HEART IS TAKEN BY YOU , AND IT IS BROKEN BY YOU ,.....NOW IT IS IN PIECES 
   JUST BECAUSE OF YOU.

* I WONDOR HOW MANY TIMES WE WILL HAVE TO SAY GOODBYE ....
   BEFORE WE FINALLY LET GO.............!

* YOU ONLY LOVE HER BECAUSE YOU FEAR THAT SHE IS THE ONLY ONE WHO LOVE YOU BACK.

January 05, 2013

Romantic Love Quotes


Tears are words the heart can't say.

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.

If it were supposed to feel good they wouldn't call it a crush.

A break up is like a broken mirror. It is better to leave it broken than to hurt yourself trying to put it back together.

The hardest thing in life is to watch the one you love, love someone else.

Who do you turn to when the only one you can trust is the one who made you cry?

Back in school, they didn't teach us what we needed to know, like how to deal with despair or a broken heart.

I gave you my heart and you broke it. Now you love me but I don't love you.

How many times can your heart break until there's nothing left to be broken?

Love starts with a hug, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.

A million words wouldnt bring you back, I know because I tried. Neither would a million tears, I know because I've cried.

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what hurts more is to love someone, and never find the courage to let them know how you feel.

January 04, 2013

LOVE QUOTES

“SOMETIMES YOU DON’T KNOW HOW MUCH YOU CARE FOR SOMEONE UNTIL THEY STOP CARING FOR YOU.”

“SOMETIMES WE MUST GET HURT IN ORDER TO GROW; WE MUST FAIL IN ORDER TO KNOW.”

“I’M NOT SURE WHICH WAS THE BIGGER LIE, WHEN YOU SAID I COULD TRUST YOU OR WHEN YOU SAID YOU LOVED ME.”

“IF YOU ONLY KNEW HOW MUCH THOSE LITTLE MOMENTS WITH YOU MATTERED TO ME.”

“YOU WERE THE LAST THING I NEEDED IN MY LIFE. YOU WERE COMPLETELY THE WRONG PERSON TO FALL IN LOVE WITH.”

“TRUST YOUR HEART BUT KNOW THE CONSEQUENCES.”

“A HEART BROKEN IS A LESSON LEARNED.”

“THERE ARE CERTAIN PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT MEANT TO FIT IN YOUR LIFE, NO MATTER HOW MUCH YOU WANT THEM TO BE.”

“DOES IT MATTER HOW I FEEL? I MEAN, IT’S NOT LIKE YOU CARE ANYMORE.”

“I’D LIKE SOMEONE WHO WALKS INTO MY LIFE ON ACCIDENT BUT STAYS ON PURPOSE.”

“WE ALL GET ADDICTED TO SOMETHING THAT TAKES AWAY THE PAIN.”


“SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO ACCEPT YOUR MISTAKES AND LIVE WITH THE RESULTS.”

“I WISH I COULD GO BACK IN TIME AND FIND YOU SOONER, THAT WAY I COULD LOVE YOU LONGER.”





January 03, 2013

Heart Touching Quotes






Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go.  ~Author Unknown


God is closest to those with broken hearts.  ~Jewish Saying


Sometimes, when one person is missing, the whole world seems depopulated.  ~Lamartine


When love is lost, do not bow your head in sadness; instead keep your head up high and gaze into heaven for that is where your broken heart has been sent to heal.  ~Author Unknown


The best way to mend a broken heart is time and girlfriends.  ~Gwyneth Paltrow


I don't know why they call it heartbreak.  It feels like every other part of my body is broken too.  ~Missy Altijd


A heartbreak is a blessing from God.  It's just his way of letting you realize he saved you from the wrong one.  ~Author Unknown


In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing.  ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966


Relationships are like glass.  Sometimes it's better to leave them broken than try to hurt yourself putting it back together.  ~Author Unknown


Love is like a puzzle.  When you're in love, all the pieces fit but when your heart gets broken, it takes a while to get everything back together.  ~Author Unknown


Maybe part of loving is learning to let go.  ~From the television show The Wonder Years


I prithee send me back my heart,
Since I cannot have thine;
For if from yours you will not part,
Why, then, shouldst thou have mine?
~John Suckling


As soon as forever is through, I'll be over you.  ~Toto


Let your tears come.  Let them water your soul.  ~Eileen Mayhew


It's so curious:  one can resist tears and 'behave' very well in the hardest hours of grief.  But then someone makes you a friendly sign behind a window, or one notices that a flower that was in bud only yesterday has suddenly blossomed, or a letter slips from a drawer... and everything collapses.  ~Colette


The heart is the only broken instrument that works.  ~T.E. Kalem


Sometimes I wish I were a little kid again, skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts.  ~Author Unknown


God can heal a broken heart, but He has to have all the pieces.  ~Author Unknown


What is the opposite of two?  A lonely me, a lonely you.  ~Richard Wilbur


Sadness flies away on the wings of time.  ~Jean de La Fontaine


If we must part forever,
Give me but one kind word to think upon,
And please myself with, while my heart's breaking.
~Thomas Otway


Have you ever been hurt and the place tries to heal a bit, and you just pull the scar off of it over and over again.  ~Rosa Parks


With what a deep devotedness of woe
I wept thy absence - o'er and o'er again
Thinking of thee, still thee, till thought grew pain,
And memory, like a drop that, night and day,
Falls cold and ceaseless, wore my heart away!
~Thomas Moore


Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night.  I miss you like hell.  ~Edna St. Vincent Millay


We must embrace pain and burn it as fuel for our journey.  ~Kenji Miyazawa


If you're going through hell, keep going.  ~Winston Churchill


You can clutch the past so tightly to your chest that it leaves your arms too full to embrace the present.  ~Jan Glidewell


There are things that we don't want to happen but have to accept, things we don't want to know but have to learn, and people we can't live without but have to let go.  ~Author Unknown